Imagine a new member walking alone into a room for her first DKG chapter meeting.
First impressions will determine how that new member
feels. How quickly you show hospitality when she arrives at the meeting shows her
the focus of the group. Are you so
involved with catching up with old friends that you do not even notice her? Do
you stop to introduce yourself, encourage the new member to come sit with your
group, and involve her in the conversation? Little acts of kindness can put her
at ease and make her feel a part of the group. This is one small way to mentor.
All members can be mentors through actions and deeds.
This is why it is important that everyone is willing to invest time and energy
in the new member and take a strong interest in the success of the chapter/Society.
As the new member shares
her interests and passions through conversation, the chapter president can
begin to involve her in committee work and chapter projects to help her have a
sense of belonging and purpose in the chapter.
Recognizing the leadership potential of new members gets them
involved and keeps them active plus gives them value in the Society.
Mentors can also assist by sharing information about
the chapter, state organization, and international levels. The Society encompasses
a wide range, and even though orientation is provided for new members, it takes
time to learn about DKG. In this role it is important that mentors determine the
best way to communicate--text, email, or phone call--so members can build a
relationship and a mentor can remind the new member of the next meeting or
project coming up. Learn about their educational role, family, pets, and interests
to become friends. Listening to what
they care about builds trust. Sharing in new members’ lives allows members to
provide professional support and encouragement, and thus be a good mentor.
Determine your DKG legacy by mentoring leaders where
everyone is accepted for their strengths, their unique individuality, and their
culture by modeling acceptance. How will you impact the lives of the members in
your chapter?