ENGAGING AND RETAINING MEMBERS: THE IMPORTANCE OF BONDING

Think back to science classes and discussions on chemical bonding.  We learned that a chemical bond is a lasting attraction between atoms or ions that holds them together. A lasting attraction and bonding together is something we want for all of our members.  We need to do all we can to get members to have a strong relationship with one another and with the Society as a whole.  Why?  Because member bonding:

•        Fosters a sense of belonging.  For new members, it helps them feel more connected and included.  We tend to retain those that feel connected.
• Nurtures strong relationships that make people feel respected, valued, heard, and seen.
• Builds trust and a sense of community. Understanding more about each other’s backgrounds and experiences helps create an environment of inclusivity.
• Strengthens the engagement of members in chapter activities.
• Creates a more comfortable atmosphere.
• Leads to collaboration and cohesion.

We can help members create strong bonds through activities that have them getting to know each other on a more personal level, activities such as:

•        Fun get-to-know you exercises (such as ice breakers).
• Programs such as “Our Talented Friends” where skills and talents of members are shared or a “Nibble and Network” event where over appetizers, members teach each other about something or share information on topics of interest.
• Shake-it-up seating at meetings (where members sit together based on month of birthday or favorite food or favorite movie/book genre or favorite area of the world to travel, etc.).
• Rose Buddies or mentors.
• Acts of appreciation (recognizing birthdays, DKG anniversaries, accomplishments, etc.).
• Carpool conversations.
• Community volunteering projects.
• Coffee chats.
• Book clubs.
• Board game gatherings.
• Potlucks where members share the recipe of the item they brought.
• Picnics.

Bonding activities are numerous.  Consider the list here a starter.  Please add, in the comment section, what fun, creative activities your chapter is doing that make connection or bond members. 

The importance of creating lasting relationships and connections between our members cannot be overstated.  The more comfortable members feel, the more likely they are to be engaged in chapter activities. And, when members are comfortable and engaged, we are more likely to retain them.